Funeral Information

Funeral Services > Options & Customization

You Have Choices
The total cost of a funeral depends on the choices made, which should be made freely with a wide range of options. The costs fall into three basic categories:

1) the use of the funeral home facilities and equipment;

2) the personal and professional services of the funeral home staff;

3) and the merchandise selected.

The assistance given by the funeral director should never be influenced by the amount you decide to spend. Every family is entitled to unlimited assistance, regardless of the choices they make.

Embalming
Contrary to popular belief, no state or province in the U.S. or Canada requires embalming by law. It may be required, however, if a public health hazard is present or if remains are to be transported across a considerable dis­tance. But it is not required in most cases when burial or cremation is performed in the same vicinity.

Most people prefer embalming for two basic reasons. First, embalming makes it possible to delay disposition long enough to notify friends and relatives who may wish to attend the visitation or service. Secondly, if there is to be a viewing, embalming and the modern science of cosmetology and restorative art make possible a comforting final appearance.

Caskets
Caskets are made by different manufacturers from different materials, and are available in different styles and colors. The choice of a casket can depend on any number of factors, ranging from personal taste to financial considerations. Although funeral home personnel are available to discuss the qualities of the various caskets, funeral directors should not attempt to influence your decision.

If remains are to be transported across some distance, the law requires that a container of some type be used as a practical necessity for final disposition. An actual casket is not a legal requirement. Even so, most people prefer that a casket be used because it offers greater protection and is more attractive during visitations and services.

We believe that only those planning the funeral can properly decide whether a casket should be used and, if so, what type is preferable. A Golden Rule funeral director will not attempt to interfere with your wishes in any way.

Burial Vaults
Some cemeteries require that a concrete box or some type of outside receptacle be used to ensure that the grave will not sink over time. Not all cemeteries have this requirement, however, and an outside receptacle is never required by law.

As with the casket, we believe that choosing an outside receptacle or vault is your decision. After selecting an attractive casket, most people prefer a vault to protect it and the remains.